CONVERSATION, COMMUNITY & CONNECTION

At The Hamlet Golf & Country Club, a Social Membership opens the door to a lifestyle built around connection, relaxation, and unforgettable experiences. Enjoy everything our vibrant community has to offer—from exceptional amenities and family-friendly activities to meaningful moments shared with friends and loved ones—while keeping the flexibility that fits your lifestyle.

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FAMILY FUN ALL YEAR LONG

Families find more than a club at The Hamlet—they find a place to belong. From unforgettable traditions and meaningful connections to experiences designed for every generation, The Hamlet brings families together through moments that become cherished memories. It’s a place where friendships grow, laughter is shared, and every visit feels like coming home.

OUR FAVORITE EVENTS

Discover a calendar bursting with excitement at The Hamlet, where our signature gatherings transform every season into a grand celebration. From lively themed nights to elegant social mixers, we bring neighbors together for unforgettable experiences that capture the vibrant spirit of Long Island.

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THEMED DINNERS

Holiday and Family Celebrations

HOLIDAY PARTIES

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GOLF EVENTS

MEET THE MEMBERSHIP TEAM

Our membership team is available to answer questions and guide you through the process.

 

Joshua Weissbard

Joshua Weissbard

General Manager

Hillary Epstein

Hillary Epstein

Membership Director

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BECOME A MEMBER

Membership at The Hamlet gives your family a place for championship golf, racquet sports, fitness, swimming, dining and a social calendar that keeps the week interesting. 

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What’s the difference between Golf and Social memberships?
Golf memberships include access to golf courses at the Club, along with full use of practice facilities, racquet sports, fitness, aquatics, dining, and social programming. Social memberships focus on lifestyle amenities such as dining, aquatics, fitness, racquet sports, and the social calendar, and limited golf privileges.
Can I switch membership types later?
Yes. Members may upgrade or adjust their membership type as their lifestyle or interests change. Our Membership Director can help tailor your membership to fit your needs.
Do my kids get access too?
Absolutely. Memberships at our Club extend to your spouse and dependent children 25 and under. Kids can enjoy a variety of youth activities.
What is the guest policy?
Members are welcome to bring guests to experience the Club. Guest fees or usage restrictions may apply depending on the amenity, and advance reservations are recommended.
Can I use other Invited clubs when I travel?
Yes. Through our XLife benefits, you gain access to a national network of 350+ private clubs and special privileges at partner resorts, hotels, and city clubs across the country.
How do I schedule a tour of the Club?
Book a tour through our website or contact a Membership Director directly.
Do I need to make an appointment, or can I just stop by?
Appointments are recommended to ensure a Membership Director is available to customize your visit.
How long does a typical tour take?
Tours usually last 60–90 minutes depending on what you’d like to see.
How quickly can I join after touring?
Membership applications are often approved within a few days, so you can begin enjoying the Club almost immediately.
What is the dress code?
Resort-casual in the clubhouse; proper golf or tennis attire on the courses and courts. Soft-spike golf shoes only. Fitness apparel is for the gym; swimwear requires a cover-up outside the pool area. Please avoid ripped denim, cut-offs, and gym wear in dining spaces.
How do I schedule a tour of the Club?
Reach out to our Membership Team to book an appointment - use the inquiry form, call the Club, or email your preferred date/time. Private tours are scheduled throughout the week.
Are non-members able to dine at the Club?
Dining is reserved for Members and their invited guests. From time to time, we host select ticketed events; availability is announced in advance.
Can I bring a guest to the Club?
Yes. Guests are welcome when accompanied by a Member (or pre-registered), and standard guest fees/policies apply. Please check in at reception or the appropriate shop on arrival.
What is the best way to reserve a tee time?
Use the Member app/online portal for the fastest booking, or contact the Golf Shop for assistance with pairings and special requests. Standard advance-booking and cancellation windows apply.